Love Is a Game. Easy to Start, Hard to Finish

Love is a Game, Easy to Start, Hard to Finish...

oh...when did zach ever sound as if he reads relationship advice from dating columns? is that really all that unique?

if this is your first time at my blog, then it probably won't be your last....

its hard to step out of negativity, but please at least try....and the only way to prevent it is not to get there in the first place....and keeping your eyes on the prize...

i didn't manage to push past the pain period today, and yeah it sucks....cos the mind would always create a huge list of excuses for you not to do it.....and at the end of the day, the only way to convince yourself...is to tell yourself, that you do only have 28,251 days......nothing is ever really that important, even the humiliation and the crumble of your own ego is but a worthwhile

experience to nurture some balls of steel....

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Thats it....here are a couple of rules to LIVE by...(adapted from MM)

Rule #1 - FOCUS ON THE MANY

firstly, due to the importance imposed on every interaction, your fears will be heightened, making it much more difficult...

lower expectations...

Rule #2 - Don't obsess over any ONE girl...

Rule #3 - Don't try to fix things in the Damage Zone. Figure what went wrong and fix them
for the next girl and don't get in the damage zone.

from first-hand experience, i think its not that difficult once you get the hang of it of incorporating it in your life.....

oh well, it does seem pretty cruel and insincere at first glance...but really, its just a colder version of relationship advice that is being dished out to the heartbroken...like....GET A LIFE, MOVE ON...lol...i do have to slap myself if i thread to close to the edge....hey, emotions are incontrollable....

esp jealousy, #1 game killer, highly insecure....... Guys, you don't have to compete, you don't have to chuck everyone out of the way....be happy for others who succeed...Make love not war..

Love Is a Game. Easy to Start, Hard to Finish