Eliciting Values

really quick post...

I could read/sense a person's emotions prior/during/post approach after doing this for awhile... I'm not boasting, but it just that you could tell the emotions and insecurities, discomfort your set goes through as your presence intrigues them.

I was a helping out doing road bloks and doing human traffic control...Ppl ask you all sorts of stupid questions that i just realise, they had so much tension being in a public place that they relieve it through a smile or some small talk with me, when i'm in army uniform. I always knew this, but this is just evidence to how ppl are lost and confused during this phenomenal population exploded society, that the only way to express themselves is to ask for directions, question my authority if they could cross the road when the red man is lighted which explicitly spell out 'DO NOT CROSS'.
I give them the stern glare, no smile. I do not even have to raise my hand to stop them. They stop on their tracks sometimes with a foot shot out about to cross.

Try this, in the mrt train, on the street, shopping malls. I stared at every single person, man, woman, child. 80% do not look at you, their eyes circle to avoid my laser beams. 10% look at you for less than a split second then look away in awkwardness. The next 5% challenge me to eye-contact in which they eventually lose. The next 4.999% smile to break the tension, in which case i smile back.

Children hold the stare the longest.... I recoommend anybody with children or planning of having kids to raise their children this way. From the moment they're born, educate him/her on the nature of eye-contact and human touch. Communicate love to your children through human touch and eye-contact. Allow them to express themselves at an early age, do not punish but reward when they express themselves.............get them talking to strangers.

WTF now i've digressed........


besides the short-term insecurities. Knowing a person's 'reality'. Her long term insecurities/passions/subconsciousness.......I mean, thru the vocabulary that they use, the books they read, clothes they wear, the company of their friends, their photographs.

For example, i mean its not big news that, girls do flash game with their facebook accts, uploading gigs of photographs on their accts detailing every moment of their lives...arent they the most desperate and in need of attention.(well everyone is.) The clothes they wear, the better they are dress, the more selective of their clothing, the more selective of their partners. Look at their friend's profiles, activities blog, and you've got that person all figured out. He or she may tell you he/she is busy, but you know its all a lie, or worst, being busy with the mundaneness.

In any case, if you have the answers they are looking for...........go figure.

Other examples.....girls that do sports, even the frickin bra they wear, inches of their heels....choice of brand of bag. How they strut when they walk in public.....somehow they think they're models.....model vibe, wind-in-the-hair vibe.....gives you a clue into their relative social value.